Rachel Recchia’s heart is on the mend, and she’s sharing insights about the lessons she’s learned along the way!
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The former ‘Bachelor’ experienced two breakups while on The Bachelor Nation; The 26-year-old was first introduced to Bachelor Nation when he competed for Clayton Echard’s heart on “The Bachelor.” The two are almost to the ‘finish line’ to get engaged, but Echard’s heart is famously elsewhere.
Recchia’s sadness eventually helped him land a season with “The Bachelorette” with his best friend and Echard’s ex-girlfriend Gabby Windey. The pilot’s pain was briefly rehabilitated by his romance with his main runner-up Tino Franco, but the two would end their engagement after reports of cheating surfaced on Franco’s part.
The ‘Bachelor’ alumna was candid in sharing her healing and dating journey with her social media followers.
The Blast has covered several aspects of Recchia’s healing process, and now he’s sharing live some of the lessons and advice he’s learned!
Recchia Spotted Dating After Public Heartbreak Is ‘Difficult’
Back in December, we discussed Recchia’s feelings about getting back on the dating scene.
At the time, she had just broken up with Franco, and moved across the country.
During a red carpet interview with iHeart Radio, she talked about her dating experience.
“You know, I try to date a little bit, very open to see what happens,” she said. “I put myself back in there and see how it goes.”
Recchia was also open to sharing she went on a coffee date with a suitor who moved through her direct messages. He deduces there may be some lip-locking action!
No New Sparks With Ex, Clayton Echard!
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Recchia recently gave social media a glimpse of a potential second-chance romance, when he and his best friend, Michelle Young, hung out with their exes. Echard was first introduced to Bachelor Nation as a contestant on Young’s season of “The Bachelorette.”
Recchia quickly shut down rumors of a reconciliation with Echard in an Instagram story slide. He insisted to his fans that he is in the middle of his “healing era,” revealing that he needs a lot of time to reflect on healing and forgiveness.
Echard recently described the two’s highly publicized meeting as very healing for him. According to our latest report on Echard’s views, he details how Recchia’s forgiveness is an important component of his own healing journey.
“The conversation was so intense,” she told Us Weekly, of their exchange. He would later say, “…For him to forgive me and tell me that, ‘Hey, I get it, and I’m not going against you again,’ that was probably one of the best things I’ve ever heard…”
Recchia Shares Her Best Breakup Tips!
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To get to her current place of healing and make peace with Echard, the beautiful ‘Bachelor’ inevitably has to learn some hard lessons along the way.
In an Instagram story Q&A session, one of Recchia’s followers asked if she had any advice on healing after a breakup. Recchia certainly has some wisdom to boot, and he shares five lessons he’s learned over time.
In her first piece of advice, Recchia wrote, “let yourself be sad – lie in bed / sulk / feel all your feelings. let your friends take care of you. even in a few months, if you think you need to get over it, you don’t have to.”
Setting boundaries is a useful step forward; Recchia’s second piece of advice reads, “delete their number/unfollow or mute them on social.”
Recchia learned how to put herself and her needs first. Her third message says, “Take time for yourself, travel, be with your family, go out with your friends, read self-help books, listen [a] podcast about moving on, therapy is also very helpful.”
Although she has admitted her experience getting back into the dating pool was a bit rough, this ‘Bachelor’ babe believes it!
“You can heal and reunite at the same time,” says Recchia in her fourth piece of advice. “If you keep working for yourself, I think it’s impossible to keep dating and put yourself back out there.”
Recchia shares her personally beneficial advice for her final points. She wrote, “forgiving and letting go of any resentment. this one took the longest for me to learn but it was the most beneficial to my healing.”
He closed his post with a lesson on the healing power of time. Recchia explains how it “really heals everything.”
Time really does heal! Recchia also holds no grudges against our current ‘Bachelor’, ex Zach Shallcross. He recently defended her on Twitter, asking followers to extend “compassion” and “grace.”
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