The unusual wedding drama shared on Reddit has sparked more than 3,500 reactions, with one bride asking others on the platform if she was wrong to leave her own wedding in reaction to a “tantrum” thrown by her new sister-in-law – which apparently wasn’t want the couple to leave the place when they do.
Fox News Digital reached out to the psychologist for comment as the story continues to gain traction.
The woman, using the username “unaliveplant,” shared some “short background” with others saying she was 27 years old and “from the UK.”
Her husband, who writes on a subreddit known as “AITA” (“Am I the a–hole”), is 38 years old and from the US.
He said the couple had a “long distance” romance for two years before their wedding.
He also has a young son from a previous relationship, he said.
Before the wedding, she wrote, she “met my in-laws via video call, but not in person until a week before [actual] marriage.”
By comparison, she said her husband had visited her many times in the UK and stayed with her for weeks at a time, meeting other people in her circle.
Before the wedding, wrote the newlyweds, he “met my in-laws via video call, but not in person until a week before me [actual] marriage.” Apiwan – stock.adobe.com
“When I got to America and … finally met the family, it was difficult because they claimed they wanted to know me many times, but none of them tried to talk to me,” the woman wrote.
“They don’t ask questions, and they all talk about things I don’t know [about]because it’s a sport or something I can’t try to get involved in, like recalling memories I can’t comment on, other than [saying]’That sounds great’ or ‘That’s great,’” he continued.
She said her husband’s family “kept claiming they wanted to know me.”
The wedding day itself, wrote the newlyweds, “was great,” but problems began to emerge when the wedding reception ended. lisovoy – stock.adobe.com
Meanwhile, she said, she would step “out every once in a while to take a break from awkward social situations (having severe anxiety)” – and she added that because the family seemed “unable to recognize me – I felt neglected and invisible. .”
Her own wedding day, she wrote, “was great.”
After the ceremony, he wrote, people “started to party.”
And then, he said, there was “kind of” the same situation as before.
“No one is talking to me,” the woman wrote. “The only people who really talk to me are my friends.”
She said that she and her new husband “spent most of our time together,” and at about 8 p.m., a good friend of hers left, someone she had spent time with at the wedding after.
The bride (not pictured) was upset, she wrote, that her new sister-in-law started throwing a “tantrum” as the wedding ceremony ended. “I yelled at my husband that I was going with or without him.” Add the newlyweds, “I know [it] not my brightest moment, but I’m tired.” nyul – stock.adobe.com
At that point, he wrote, “no one [else] talked a lot with me and my husband at that time.”
She said that when 9pm rolled around, she changed into her wedding dress “and started[ed] trying to pack things. So there’s not much to do at the end of the night.”
That’s when, he added, his sister-in-law, 48 years old, “realized[d] we will go.”
Wrote one commenter regarding the unusual situation described in the post, “It seems his family knows something you don’t. Their behavior is very strange.” AntonioDiaz – stock.adobe.com
Her new husband, the woman on Reddit wrote, had been “playing with my son (who is 5).”
Her husband’s sister, she wrote, began “screaming at me, asking if we were going, like she was terribly shocked.”
The bride added that the sister-in-law “yelled at me three times until she stormed out and – well, threw a tantrum.”
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The bride said, “My husband tried to go and calm him down, but that didn’t work and he just kept” crying.
“When I told my husband that the uber [was there]” for them and it was time for them to leave the place, “I’m tired and very angry at this point, after being yelled at … I just want to leave.”
So, she added, “I yelled at my husband that I was going with or without him.”
The woman added, “I know [it] not my brightest moment, but I’m tired, especially with my body clock not changing either.”
The couple eventually left and “is now his sister [was] crazy [Plus] her husband [was] crazy,” too.
As a result, the bride wrote, the sister-in-law’s husband decided that the couple couldn’t have “the wedding video he took from us” because he thought the bride was “immature for not having a little bit left” after seeing a distraught sister-in-law.
Added the bride in her social media post, “I understand she’s upset, but at the same time, she is [could have] pulled us aside and had a civil conversation with us instead of yelling at me and throwing tantrums like a child.”
In an edit to her post and in response to questions from others, she wrote that her sister-in-law was upset because she “wanted to spend more time with her brother,” apparently.
“I did say we [had] all week after that to spend time with him and so on, but he just said he was [was] too busy.”
Meanwhile, the bride said her new husband had not “moved to the UK yet. He is going back soon to finish things at home and apply for a visa to move here, which will take at least three months.”
The woman was considered “not an a-hole” by others after her post.
Among the comments of other people who came in about the drama: “This is your husband’s problem. Just ignore him,” wrote one user on the platform, receiving more than 6,500 “upvotes” for the comment.
Several commenters expressed confusion about that aspect of the woman’s story, with one writing, “I really don’t understand why [the husband’s] sister is disappointed… You are gone [the venue]. You left not because of your sister. You left because the reception was over.”
Another commenter said directly to the original poster, “How much effort did you put into getting to know his family?”
Wrote another, “It seems his family knows something you don’t. Their behavior is very strange.”
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