Crystal Hefner has opened up about her sex life with her late husband, Hugh Hefner.
According to the famous s—x icon’s widow, their bedroom shenanigans were less of a wild, unbridled passion pit and more like a scripted s—x play.
Crystal Hefner Declares ‘Relieved’ After ‘Robotic’ Relationship With Hugh Hefner Ends
Crystal has revealed the absence of kissing, romance, or intimacy in the bedroom for the entirety of her and Hugh’s years-long relationship.
The news came as a surprise, considering she was immediately invited to take part in a group sex session with the host shortly after her first meeting with Hugh at a Halloween party at a Los Angeles mansion.
Looking back on the event, she recounts in her recently published memoir, “Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself:”
“It’s an excellent, well-rehearsed sequence of events. One that goes the same way every time. Picks up some girls from a party and brings them. Change of uniform for work: silk pajamas. Dim lights. Music. porn. Passing pot . And then s—x.”
Crystal soon learned that the sexual encounter with Hugh was “weird and robotic,” expressing the feeling that Hef was just going through the motions of something that may have lost its once fun and s-xy appeal, or maybe not.
Despite that bad experience, Crystal emphasizes in her book that giving magazine editors advice, especially about sex, is not something anyone dares to do.
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He suggests that as expected from a man of great wealth, power, and a circle of “yes people,” individuals stick to their own narratives, and others just “go along with it.”
The Playboy model later recounted that Hugh never once made eye contact with her during their intimate moments; instead, his gaze remained upward on a strategically placed mirror.
“There’s nothing s-xy about it. It’s about power and control and leverage. It’s a performance. I was auditioning,” Crystal explained. In his book, he questions whether he really believes everyone enjoys the experience, writing:
“He seems less sexually intelligent than some of the teenage boys I’ve been with a few years ago. It’s clear to me that Hef never spent his whole life thinking about how to make other people happy.”
Going further, the 37-year-old revealed a preference for group s—x over personal encounters with his deceased partner, who was addicted to sex-enhancing drugs. He details the “night of the little blue pill”, describing the incident when they had sx and he needed music.
Every time they were intimate, he repeated the same Madonna song, explaining that it was a way to make sure no other music in the place would be contaminated.
Crystal shared that when the sexual activity stopped in 2014, she was “relieved,” especially because it meant freedom from the Playboy drama she had kept Hugh and the public for years.
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Recalling the Playboy Mansion’s reputation as one of the first s—x-positive, liberated places, he now questions whether that perception really exists.
Crystal has previously voiced her desire to return to her maiden name
The insight into Hefner’s s—x life comes just days after Crystal spoke about her decision to distance herself from the Hefner name and return to her maiden name, Harris.
The 91-year-old’s third and final wife made her wishes known when she appeared on Rachel Uchitel’s “Miss Understood” podcast earlier this week. During the discussion, Rachel asked about the effect Hefner’s name had on her.
Crystal, married to Hugh until his death in 2017, revealed that Hefner’s secretary quickly changed her last name to match the late Playboy boss after their 2012 wedding.
He revealed that his perspective on being a Hefner began to change as he worked on his new memoir, and that process prompted him to reflect on his emotions about carrying the famous name. In the words of a disc jockey:
“For the last five years before writing the book, I just hid. So, I’m not around people to talk about it or really dive into it. But since the book has come out, now, it’s something I think about internally. I don’t want to be Hefner. I’m done with that. I’ve closed the book now that I’ve written it and I think my name needs to go back to where it came from.”
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