Regina King has opened up about her son’s death for the first time in more than two years.
The Oscar-winning actor revealed what life has been like since his late son, Ian Alexander Jr., tragically died by suicide on January 26, 2022 in a recent interview.
Ian is the only child of King and her ex-husband and record producer Ian Alexander.
Regina King Admits Depression Is Part Of Her Son’s Struggle
On the latest episode of “Good Morning America,” King explores how his late son continues to influence his life posthumously. Asked how things have been over the past two years, the Los Angeles native stated:
“I am a different person now than I was on January 19. Grief is a journey, you know? I understand that grief is love that has nowhere to go and we all deal with it differently.”
King later revealed that Ian, whom he honored at the Oscars by wearing his favorite color — orange, battles mental health challenges. As he told Robin Roberts:
“When it comes to depression, people expect it to look a certain way, and they expect it to look heavy. And people expect that … having to experience this and not being able to have time to sit with Ian’s choice, which I respect and understand, you know, that he does not want [sic] being here again, that’s a hard thing for other people to accept because they don’t appreciate our experience, don’t appreciate Ian’s journey.”
Regina King: ‘I’m So Angry With God’
As a mother, King expressed how witnessing Ian’s struggle made her feel very disappointed in God. In his words:
“I was very angry with God. You know, why is that weight given to Ian? With all the things we’d been through with therapy, with psychiatrists and programs, and Ian was like, ‘I’m tired of talking, Mom.’” she recalled.
Although time has passed since his son’s death, the 53-year-old still feels guilty, especially when wondering what he could have done differently to prevent it.
Amidst the grief, King insists that he doesn’t shy away from discussing Ian, who often accompanies him on the red carpet.
The “Watchmen” actor mentioned that he still finds moments that he describes as small reminders from the universe that his son’s presence remains. He affectionately calls them “Ian-spirations.”
The King & His Son Share an Unbreakable Bond
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In the days after news of Ian’s death initially broke, The Blast reported that King released an official statement expressing the deep devastation his family felt over the loss.
She described her late son as a radiant presence who cared deeply about the happiness of others. The “Miss Congeniality 2: Armed & Fabulous” performer concluded, “Our family asks for respectful consideration during this personal time. Thank you.”
The bond between mother and daughter is evident as they are often seen together at award ceremonies and other events, portraying a close family dynamic.
The affection was further cemented on King’s 50th birthday when Ian shared a sweet message to social media which read in part:
“Having you as my mother is the greatest gift I could ask for. Being all that you are while always having time to be there, love, and support me unconditionally is truly amazing. The whole universe of miracles does not get your attention, you are a real superhero! Dear mother!”
Fans Join King in Mourning Ian After His Death
Initially used to celebrate King’s birthday, the Instagram post on January 21, 2021 soon became a place of condolences after Ian’s mother confirmed his death.
Mourning the loss, one fan wrote, “My heart is so heavy for you, and I’m so sorry that he’s gone. Praying for you.”
Another declared, “Regina, my heart is broken for losing you. I can’t imagine the Pain in your heart right now. My prayers and condolences go out to you!”
“May her Soul Rest in Eternal Peace, and May Miss Regina King find peace one day, Sorry for your loss,” commented a third grieving fan.
The King Before Celebrated His Son’s Late Presence
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To mark Ian’s first posthumous birthday, King uploaded a clip of orange sky lanterns floating in the night sky. Alongside the video, he wrote:
“January 19 is Ian’s Eligible Day. While we still process his physical absence, we celebrate his presence. We are all in different places on the planet…and so is Ian. His spirit is the thread that connects us. Of course, orange is your favorite color… It is fire and calm.”
King ended the post on a heartfelt note, noting how he felt Ian’s “presence in every breath” he took, and that “his most cherished identity is … Regina, Ian’s mother, the Lord King.”
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