Jada Pinkett Smith still has a lot to say about her shocking split from Will Smith, which she recently revealed during a media tour for her new memoir Worth it.
In a new interview, the mother-of-two spoke of feeling “resentful” towards her estranged husband following their split and how she felt Will threw her “by the wayside” after she helped him find his happiness.
Jada also stated in a different interview that she planned in 2020 to announce their breakup on her canceled show, “The Red Table Talk,” but Will wasn’t “ready” at the time.
Jada Pinkett Smith Reveals What Ruined Her Marriage To Will Smith
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Hollywood star and talk show host Jada Pinkett Smith has been on a media tour for her upcoming memoir, Worth itwhere she has opened up in depth about her marriage to Oscar award winner Will Smith.
The actress, who recently announced that they have been separated for seven years now, shared during a chat with Steven Bartlett on “The Diary Of A CEO” podcast that the struggle in her marriage started because of a difference in “love language.”
According to Jada, she and Will have different ways of expressing their love for each other, explaining that “Will’s love language is ‘I want to work. I want to work hard so that you can have everything in the world that you want. You won’t need anything.’”
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But he, instead, was, “‘I just want you here with me. I don’t need all those things; I want to see your eyes and feel your love and feel your protection here with me.’ It’s like the connection I want to feel.”
Jada states that she wants to make a “masterpiece” out of her relationship with Will, while she wants to make a “masterpiece” out of “life itself.”
Although Jada states that “the will is not wrong,” she states that finding a balance between the two “wants” is where the issue begins.
He stated, per Daily Mail“As a couple, we face this power struggle [but] it’s not about who is right or wrong, but how you get the balance. Will and I took three decades!”
Jada Pinkett Smith Feels Like She’s Losing Herself In Relationships
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During her conversation with Bartlett on her podcast, the actress stated that she felt lost in their relationship because she always invested herself in Will’s “dream”.
He said, “I just gave and gave and forgave … not realizing that I had left myself with the hope that if I keep pouring into this, if I keep pouring into him, if I keep pouring into his dream, I I will eventually get what I want.”
“That is a false idea in many ways and many of us do it. If Will looks back and tries to give me anything I ask for, he’s not going to be able to achieve it,” Jada added.
The “Girls Trip” star noted that if she’s “out of touch” with herself and doesn’t have a good relationship with herself, there’s nothing Will can do to help her.
“That’s part of the journey, there’s no right or wrong. Everyone is always trying to find the good guy or the bad guy in people’s stories. There are no good people or bad people; we all hurt trying to figure this out, so it took me a long time to realize that it’s not his responsibility to make you happy. He can’t.”
She Feels ‘Sorry’ For Will Smith After Their Breakup
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Jada revealed during her conversation with Bartlett that when she and Will decided to break up, he told her to “go and do it [herself] happy.”
The actor stated that he did not take his statement well, because he felt like he was thrown to the “sidewalk.”
Jada said, “I thought it was so true, but at the time, I was still very angry. I was just like, ‘Oh, so I helped you find your happiness, now you’re just going to, you know, throw me to the side of the road, and you know I’ve got to do it all myself now,’ but that’s actually I had to do it myself, you know just like he did.”
She added, “A lot of it, I detoxed from needing fulfillment and validation outside of myself, detoxed from needing it from Will, my marriage, my family, my career. I had to go to Jada’s bare bones and walk into the wasteland.”
Jada Pinkett Smith Plans To Reveal Her Split From Will In 2020 On ‘The Red Table Talk’
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In another interview on Kelly Ripa’s podcast, “Let’s Talk Off Camera with Kelly Ripa,” scheduled to air on Wednesday, Jada shared that she had planned to announce her split from Will in 2020 after August Alsina’s shocking allegations rocked the internet, but Will it was not yet “ready” at that time.
“When the person decided to come out and talk about it, the relationship was over for two years, and I was in a place where I really didn’t want to be emotionally blackmailed in that way, if that makes sense,” Jada said.
He states that he plans to do his show, “The Red Table Talk,” alone to address the Alsina issue, but Will insists on joining him.
“And I was like, ‘Hey, I’m going to own this. I have no shame around it.’ So I was going to go to the table by myself, but then Will decided that he wanted to come to the table with me,” revealed the actress.
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She continued, “He was like, ‘I really don’t want you to do this alone.’ And I think the misconception is that I asked Will to come to the table. I forced him to come to the table, and that didn’t happen. You can’t force Will to do anything, okay?”
Jada told Ripa that while discussing her “engagement” with Alsina on the infamous 2020 episode of her show, she started to notice how uncomfortable Will was and decided to change course because it seemed like he wasn’t ready to talk about it.
He said, “I started to see that he was uncomfortable. I started to see that he wasn’t ready, and my codependency kicked in, “And I’m like, I’m going to make sure you’re good by any means necessary, even if that means taking on the false narrative that I’ve been an adulterous wife.”
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